Competition is good for children. It is quite normal for people to judge themselves against others, thus in that respect competition is quite healthy. In a supportive environment, it can teach a child to accept failure without losing self-esteem. However, it becomes unhealthy when the competitor is forced to compete or feels that they have to compete in order to gain love or status within the family.

Healthy competition inspires kids to do their best _not just good enough.

Competition can be a double-edged sword for kids, promoting positive values under the right conditions but creating negative environments that are demotivating under the wrong ones.

Competition can be healthy when it provides feedback to kids about their performance and improvement, when winning is not the sole or primary objective and when kids get to learn about themselves under challenging situations.                                       

Under these circumstances, competition can teach invaluable lessons our children do not typically learn in the classroom.

Here I am giving example if you wish to improve your kid’s handwriting you can practice until it is better than before raising the bar for yourself each time.  Comparing your handwriting with others, however, may have caused your handwriting to be devoid of your own personal touch or flair.  If Picasso tried copying other artists we would be devoid of the wonderfully unique art pieces left by him today.

Instead, let them do what they do best by letting them be the best version of themselves.

A person works very hard to clear any competitive exams. But there are many people who in spite of having a good command of the subject and inspire of doing hard work whole the year not able to pass the exam.

And there are some people who without doing any extra effort easily get success.

Now here the question arises why?

Why an incompetent person selected?

Why it happens that a knowledgeable person is unable to pass the competitive exams?

Why a person deprived of the seat just by only 1 number

Why a person forget the answers at the main exam time?

Why a person get ill at the time of exam and lose the game?

Luck is very important in life. If luck favours you then you can kick the king and if the lock is not with you then in spite of being a king you are unable to perform any task.

So if you want to get success in competitive exams then you must put some effort in increasing your luck too.

If luck does not fever you then don’t get lost in any situation you should give some special effort.

Special effort means doing every possible thing to increase our intelligence which seems difficult but it is not impossible. Through a special meditation process, throw special yoga and another astrology way. It is possible to develop any power in the human body.

Once a man asked God if everything is already written or pre-decided then why should I try or give effort.

God smiled and simply replied who knows if I have written on any page as you wish. That’s why you must give an effort.

You cannot control your destiny on a daily basis but somehow you can change it with your strong determination your endless effort.